tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1179359455569946862.post5560910838203146886..comments2022-04-08T17:42:43.687+02:00Comments on The Official Blog of Ismail Kamdar: Young Da'ee DilemmasAbu Muawiyah Ismail Kamdarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14744690454518248892noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1179359455569946862.post-85599663576134856712009-12-14T22:13:48.117+02:002009-12-14T22:13:48.117+02:00Salam Young Brother
Can I just say that Mashalah,...Salam Young Brother<br /><br />Can I just say that Mashalah, you rock! Would love to exchange emails with you, would you mind sending me your email address to hamayoun.khan@gmail.com? And please check out my blog at regularbaba.blogspot.comRegular Babahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11335692029267168663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1179359455569946862.post-24281923566626542922009-12-14T11:33:34.911+02:002009-12-14T11:33:34.911+02:00As Salaamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatahu y...As Salaamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatahu ya Abu Muawiyah<br /><br />I wanted to discuss two points that you mentioned in your post on the Da'ee Dilemmas.<br /><br />1. You mentioned how you were arguing with an elder over how tribalism cannot be a condition for marriage. Did not Rasulullah sallallahu alayhe wasallam say that a woman is married for 4 reasons: her beauty, her wealth, her lineage and her piety/religion. So marry the one who is religious. But that does not detract from the fact that we can still marry a woman for other reasons as well(from the 4). Moreover I do not see any difference between "tribalism" and "lineage". We could probably discuss this further. :)<br /><br />2. With regards to an obstinate elder who refuses to learn from you even if you are correct, my advice would not be to avoid him necessarily. I would recommend admitting your youth and then telling him that verily you are human and may be prone to mistakes. Then ask that person to make dua'a that both of you be guided to what is correct(or ask him to make dua'a for you). This will not only soothe his pride since you admit his statement about your youth but will also make him slightly more receptive to what you may have to say.<br /><br />Wallahu a'lam<br /><br />Wassalaamu 'alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa barakatahu<br />Your brother in Islam<br />Abu AyyoobIbn Nusrathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06976946576681560420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1179359455569946862.post-61367182466600391702009-12-13T06:57:21.023+02:002009-12-13T06:57:21.023+02:00You are truly one confused individual. May Allah g...You are truly one confused individual. May Allah guide us all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com